Bless for coincidence

After discussion with three (a roommate， her boyfriend， and me)， I drove my PC to search for an apartment available from November.

A few minutes later， I could find one giving a sort of information that was basically acceptable. Then I called the roommate hunter and made appointment for me to visit her (again， a woman) the next day (Wednesday).

She opened her information in Japanese website， but her speaking in Japanese is apparently not the native’s， maybe Chinese or else. I got impression that she had had experience to learn official/polite Japanese. Coincidently， since some registerd in "OKINIIRI" in this web wrote about hardship related to learn Japanese， I got a sense that she knew the word "effort."

--- on Wednesday

The two of three bedrooms were occupied by her and one Chinese guy. I felt it must be good to avoid a conflict (?) within the apartment. The third person is somehow really important. I think...

One of bedroom to be assigned to a newcomer is occupied by one Japanese girl. But she will leave within this month and the room will be vacant. I asked the reason to the Chinese woman， not Japanese girl. First of all， she hesitated to tell me. But I asked her， by telling the necessity to know what kind of friction she had already experienced.

I don’t know why， but she could trust me， and she told me.

I found she had got experience to quarrel with the Japanese girl that might have been quite similar to things I had experienced. The words， she cited， related to selfishness were highly applicable to the words I used in my diary (this webpage).

I told her honestly what I had experienced including my probable fault and attitude I should have had.

Based on such an open-minding of each other， we could smoothly process updating the lease for her and me. It seemed to be clear that we could be able to trust each other， but I told her to prepare for a document in order for each of us to describe our trust with signature， which lack was the primary issue. She understood my feeling with high regard to its importance and accepted my offer.

Nothing bad so far... Yes， so far.

She said to me，
"I feel I can accept you as a roomie more than anyone."

I answered，
"That’s what my current roommate said for the first time."

Then， we laughed.

I think we know the importance of attitude adjustment， flexibility， patience， and compatibility.

I met the Chinese guy who is a computer scientist. He gave a greeting for welcome， and that was all. He went to his room with his dish for dinner... My impression was tha he could keep himself and other roommates independent， basically as I demand a roommate to do.

I had no choice for apartment hunting in good meaning.

Sounds optimistic?
could be， I know. But the coincidence must be a sign of something I am waiting for.