friend talking

with boyfriend of the roommate’s.
That is so funny to enjoy it.

He told me about her sensitive personality and else， basically.

1) She is too sensitive that she cannot be flexible as you expect， because she is too old for you.
2) She is woman. Her feeling is hidden and she cannot express it to you， as she did to the last female roommate.
3) You (Bow) are too young to see the feeling of woman.

We totally laughed at the conversation.
I pointed out logically， and analytically her suggestion to me. Basically， I did according to her suggestion. e.g. I opened my mind entirely， because she encouraged me to do it for the first arrival of mine. But she could not get ready for it. Now I am sure that what she said is different from what she felt. After I told anything honestly， she accepted， and then she talked over it with her friends or her boyfriend， probably saying， "I cannot accept Bow’s offer..."， like that.

I told it to her boyfriend. And he said to me， "That’s a woman. That’s normal. You must understand it."

So funny.

"Generally young man cannot understand properly the contradiction within a woman. I was like you， when I was young."

I said，
"Yes. Now I understand I was too young."

then asked，
"But which do you think childish or adult? Am I or is She? Basically， I had nothing wrong. Because I did anaything based on her suggestion， I am sure. She told me to do as I liked and told me to be open-minded."

He answered，
"Well， I love her. So...(forgot)..."

We laughed.

Then， I was suggested to change her mind to let me live with her roommate， by making her confortable， by smiling， by talking as her previous roommate did， by arranging anything as she likes， or whatever.

I will try. I must try to settle down.
But I don’t mind anything， basically.
I don’t know why， but I feel really confortable.

I am sure that I am young.
But I don’t think that I am not an adult.
I am sure that she is old.
But I don’t think that she is an adult.