MJFC
2003年9月8日 ●Boston●日常徒然Medicine Japanese Football Club.
I joined it today and had fun... But I felt highly depressed at my own performance， which was totally ridiculous.
I noticed that it had been the first time to spent more than 1 year without soccer since I begun. Tragedic... How far from my image. Simply poor， and easily exhausted.
Next Sunday， I will make it better， I think...
But the members in MJFC are all in workers in medical areas famous and popular. The opportunity to get together with them must be good for my circle of friends and my academic life.
---roommate issue (continued)---
Well， finally I accept the asking of her and her boy friend. I want to say I accept the boyfriend’s asking.
He is also afraid how the conversation end. And soon after conversation between me and her went stupidly， he called. And I got the chance to talk with him. He was really gentle and concerned of my predictable situation.
Review! The factors to be considered in decision making are:
1， contract bet. landload and roommate (female)
2， one year contract bet. me and roommate
3， her private issues， no enough money， marriage， expensive dental operation， lonliness without female roommate.
4， my own situation occured by change of contract; finding of new commer during spring semester. trust toward her well-considered in signing one year lease.
She mentioned only 2 and 3 until I mentined the rests. But her boyfriend mentioned 4 almost first of all and promised that he and she would help me find a new roommate. There was much difference in sincerity between the two approaches， I felt. That was good learning， I am sure， for the case I would have to convince someone. First of all， 4 shoud be covered and must be conpensated... That is what he did.
Then we got agreement through the following conversation.
Bow: "Let me ask one to you. Then， if you said yes， I will accept anything."
He: "OK， go ahead."
Bow: "When both of you got together， can you invite me to the marriage party or your home party?"
He: "Oh! My!!!"
Then， he laughed out and said，
"Yes! Yes! Yes!"
We did gentle talking， I think.
I don’t know which lost temper first， I or the female roomamte. But now I am sure that her way of talking with me was out of common sense.
After finishin talking on phone with the guy， he talked with her. But she was still angry. And after hanging up， she was still. Although everything went OK due to my acceptance (compromise)， she didn’t say anything.
I was not an adult enough to carry on the conversation with patience. Her personality with too much emotional thoughts was far beyond my expectation， and I had not had human-related-experience enough to cope with such a personality.
That was good experience.
I will do talking again with her boyfriend， and tell him how I got upset， hopefully.
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Internet connection shall be set on 15th...
English has only 26 letters， a-z， whereas Japanese has 50. It is reasonable to require longer sentences to write the same thing in English than in Japanese. Now 2974 letters.
I joined it today and had fun... But I felt highly depressed at my own performance， which was totally ridiculous.
I noticed that it had been the first time to spent more than 1 year without soccer since I begun. Tragedic... How far from my image. Simply poor， and easily exhausted.
Next Sunday， I will make it better， I think...
But the members in MJFC are all in workers in medical areas famous and popular. The opportunity to get together with them must be good for my circle of friends and my academic life.
---roommate issue (continued)---
Well， finally I accept the asking of her and her boy friend. I want to say I accept the boyfriend’s asking.
He is also afraid how the conversation end. And soon after conversation between me and her went stupidly， he called. And I got the chance to talk with him. He was really gentle and concerned of my predictable situation.
Review! The factors to be considered in decision making are:
1， contract bet. landload and roommate (female)
2， one year contract bet. me and roommate
3， her private issues， no enough money， marriage， expensive dental operation， lonliness without female roommate.
4， my own situation occured by change of contract; finding of new commer during spring semester. trust toward her well-considered in signing one year lease.
She mentioned only 2 and 3 until I mentined the rests. But her boyfriend mentioned 4 almost first of all and promised that he and she would help me find a new roommate. There was much difference in sincerity between the two approaches， I felt. That was good learning， I am sure， for the case I would have to convince someone. First of all， 4 shoud be covered and must be conpensated... That is what he did.
Then we got agreement through the following conversation.
Bow: "Let me ask one to you. Then， if you said yes， I will accept anything."
He: "OK， go ahead."
Bow: "When both of you got together， can you invite me to the marriage party or your home party?"
He: "Oh! My!!!"
Then， he laughed out and said，
"Yes! Yes! Yes!"
We did gentle talking， I think.
I don’t know which lost temper first， I or the female roomamte. But now I am sure that her way of talking with me was out of common sense.
After finishin talking on phone with the guy， he talked with her. But she was still angry. And after hanging up， she was still. Although everything went OK due to my acceptance (compromise)， she didn’t say anything.
I was not an adult enough to carry on the conversation with patience. Her personality with too much emotional thoughts was far beyond my expectation， and I had not had human-related-experience enough to cope with such a personality.
That was good experience.
I will do talking again with her boyfriend， and tell him how I got upset， hopefully.
---
Internet connection shall be set on 15th...
English has only 26 letters， a-z， whereas Japanese has 50. It is reasonable to require longer sentences to write the same thing in English than in Japanese. Now 2974 letters.
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