Happy 2
2003年9月6日 ●Boston●日常徒然So， I backwardly asked her to think， just think， of the situations I would be under. Irritatingly， she had to take time to think. And also I expanded the possibility as much as possible. She got upset. I could not accept her asking easily， because I signed for one year lease. That was simple. But she made it complicated by talking about her private issues， marriage， dental， how she had spent her life here， which were basically far away from my interest and consideration.
The way I though was logic. But her way was emotinal. I learned that such a converstion would not reach agreement. All it would be required to end it might be compromise of one of the two sticking to logic.
Could she compromise? No. Because she got agreement with a landload before talking with me. I had no choice as far as I thought at that time. Actually， I made sure if every options I had somehow included troubles for me.
Finally I approved of the shortening of lease from 1 year to half， after gentle talking with her boyfriend.
She is over 40 years old of age. I had never seen such a person in her generation... She is more childish than I. I cannot help thiking so.
Conversation doesn’t built up.
That’s scary. And I am concerned that she has complained to friends of hers about me.
The way I though was logic. But her way was emotinal. I learned that such a converstion would not reach agreement. All it would be required to end it might be compromise of one of the two sticking to logic.
Could she compromise? No. Because she got agreement with a landload before talking with me. I had no choice as far as I thought at that time. Actually， I made sure if every options I had somehow included troubles for me.
Finally I approved of the shortening of lease from 1 year to half， after gentle talking with her boyfriend.
She is over 40 years old of age. I had never seen such a person in her generation... She is more childish than I. I cannot help thiking so.
Conversation doesn’t built up.
That’s scary. And I am concerned that she has complained to friends of hers about me.
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