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2003年9月5日 ●Boston●日常徒然I had troubles with my roommate, as sometimes heard generally speaking. My Ph.D program goes enjoyably, as expected. My thesis work for the previous degree program hasn’t finished yet, as concerned.
I mentioned a lot before the case of a woman attributing everything undesirable for her to external factors. I come to think that she doesn’t matter, since she has never affected my life directly. Though, conversation with her is irritating basically.
But my current roommate... directly gives an annoying impact on me. We promised that we would open our minds to each other to better our lives based on the lease I signed for one year. But she told me to change the contract suddenly 3 days after my signing, to shorten the lease. The approach to convince me was terrible.
The primary problems for her were her private issues. She mentioned her surroundings to force her to ask me change of lease contents. Those were all she mentioned. The situation I would be faced with was totally ignored. She was asking me to accept her offer. But she didn’t pay attention to my own situation. Shortening the lease clearly meant that I would have to find new roommate or get away from the apartment for which I signed for one year lease, during an academic term. She never talked about the conpensation for such troubles I would have. I asked about what she thought of probable troubles, but she did not prepare for them.
Again, she asked me to change the contents which we got agreement on. Her attitude without thinking of my feeling was horribly stupid. Generally, when one asks someone to change his/her mind, one asking must cover feelings and situatinos belonging to the situation after the change. She never cared of it.
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Writing in English can easily go up to 3000 letters, which is limitation of Diary Note as of now. Let me split into two.
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Any mistakes? I rely on Microsoft Word when I write something in English and on its spell check function. I feel anxious without such a function.
Ah, I can write in a MS word file. But betsuni iiya.
I mentioned a lot before the case of a woman attributing everything undesirable for her to external factors. I come to think that she doesn’t matter, since she has never affected my life directly. Though, conversation with her is irritating basically.
But my current roommate... directly gives an annoying impact on me. We promised that we would open our minds to each other to better our lives based on the lease I signed for one year. But she told me to change the contract suddenly 3 days after my signing, to shorten the lease. The approach to convince me was terrible.
The primary problems for her were her private issues. She mentioned her surroundings to force her to ask me change of lease contents. Those were all she mentioned. The situation I would be faced with was totally ignored. She was asking me to accept her offer. But she didn’t pay attention to my own situation. Shortening the lease clearly meant that I would have to find new roommate or get away from the apartment for which I signed for one year lease, during an academic term. She never talked about the conpensation for such troubles I would have. I asked about what she thought of probable troubles, but she did not prepare for them.
Again, she asked me to change the contents which we got agreement on. Her attitude without thinking of my feeling was horribly stupid. Generally, when one asks someone to change his/her mind, one asking must cover feelings and situatinos belonging to the situation after the change. She never cared of it.
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Writing in English can easily go up to 3000 letters, which is limitation of Diary Note as of now. Let me split into two.
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Any mistakes? I rely on Microsoft Word when I write something in English and on its spell check function. I feel anxious without such a function.
Ah, I can write in a MS word file. But betsuni iiya.
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